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Nanny, not a Sitter

It used to never bother me that people would call a nanny a babysitter. But, after working as a nanny for a few years, that has changed. Nannies are very different than sitters. Sitters may have a relationship with the family, but the connection is not the same. Nannies don't just have a connection with the family, they have to become family. They don't just know the kids, they know the family. Sitters come and play with the kids for a few hours here and there. Nannies are there anywhere from once a week, to living in the home all hours of a week. And, just like moms, even after they leave, the kids are still always on their minds. They worry about whether they handled a situation properly with the kids. They think about what they can do with the kids the next day they are with them. They wonder what they could have done better, and they think about how they can do better next time. A babysitter is temporary. A nanny is there to be a mom's hands, feet and heart whil